Taking people forgranted ...

I don't know how people can take some who loves them as "forgranted" .And i think it happens with every one , Not only boys but to girls too . when you love without asking any thing in return people start taking you forgranted .They don't realise it till you are too numb to feel any of there pain and want to run away. Actually want to run away from yourself you have given so much to it that nothing is left with you.

Once my friend told me some thing about "Strategic affair" I name it .."Love using your wit and brain ". He said "if you want your girl friend to love you more, never give her enough time , always less than what she wants .... and if you are giving more than what she wants .. you are creating problem for your self . because people are cruel and they don't understand love , and soon start taking you "frogranted" ".
Actually I never tried his suggestion because I was so into it that even when she use to do some thing(sorry..many times) like making me insignificant in her life, I use to be angry but after that burst of anger every thing use to be same for me, her glimpse use to calm me down (sometimes use to make me angry :-D).I never thought of leaving her.

Anyway .. I know no one is reading all this ... in fact I am not writing this to be read by someone ... but to take every thing out of my mind ..so that I can leave all this and move on in my life ...
but one thing is for sure , that I don't want to be in a relation any more .

By the way.... Having a bigger brain doesn't mean using it even when we don't have to use to ...esp love its something from heart brain is useless :-)

As I wrote in my last blog "Not always you have to keep your head above your heart ".